Even shy girls like sex, but shyness can actually be a hindrance in the bedroom. If you are shy when it comes to having sex, you may be wondering if there are any small steps that you can take to feel more comfortable. You may want to have more control and ensure your partner is as comfortable as possible around you.
First and foremost, it is important to make your partner understand that you are self-conscious. This tells them that it isn’t anything that they’ve said or done. However, you can do a little work on yourself by simply getting over the shyness. Learn how to please yourself and love and accept your body. You can do this by taking responsibility for your pleasure and your orgasm. If you feel like you can do this, then you may not need to reveal your shyness.
If you like magazines, you have probably seen some rather interesting sex tips published within their pages. Some have probably made you laugh when you read them, some probably made you laugh when you tried them, and others may have made you turn the page really fast. Then again, you probably read through them a dozen times because you just couldn’t believe that they were classified as sex tips.
Yes, there are some rather wild tips out there and you have to wonder if they exist because the author seems to be reaching. However, you do have to admit that those terrible sex tips are rather fascinating, but it is best not to try them.
So you thought you knew every trick out there to get your partner ready for more. What you may not realize is that your partner is just as sexually adventurous as you are when it comes to trying new things. This is especially true when those new things work.
So what sorts of things can you do that you haven’t tried already? You might be surprised because while some of those things are subtle, some of them are pretty risqué.
Did you know that your boobs can be valuable tools during sex and not just for your partner? You can get a lot of satisfaction out of using your breasts in the bedroom. They are these little seductresses that like to peek above bikini tops and lacy bras. Unfortunately, not every woman knows how she can enjoy her breasts while having sex. But the truth is that boob play has a very important role in pleasing you and your partner in the bedroom.
You’ve leafed innocently through the pages of many magazines and you have come across some sex tips that seriously make you scratch your head. However, while you may have scratched your head, someone else may have been brazen enough to try them. Some may have success, some may just endure a little embarrassment, and others may actually find themselves or their partner injured. They are now making television shows about sex landing people in the ER. You do not want to be one of those people.
Nearly everyone wants to have sex. Actually, make that nearly all of the adult population. Unfortunately, boring sex can really put a strain on a relationship and there is a reason for this. While people want to have sex, they also crave something different. They want something that is going to blow their mind rather than the same old thing. Sex is something that you can be creative with and share with one another and no one else. If something awkward happens, then the two of you can laugh about it and use it as a learning experience that helps your relationship grow. If everything goes right, then you are still going to become closer.
It’s the same old thing that is going to cause things to fall apart. For instance, women tend to complain about foreplay that is too short. Approximately 66 percent of men say that they wish women wouldn’t be too shy to initiate sex more often. In order to make this happen, a woman has to be coaxed out of her sexual shell. She has to be tempted, teased, and brought to a point where she has no choice but to be the initiator.
There is a myth about wedding night sex – apparently every newly married couple has the most amazing sex of their lives while consummating the marriage. The truth is that this is not the case for everyone. In fact, there have been married couples who have had some pretty lousy sex that first night. Although that does not signify the instant death of the marriage or the couple’s sex life, there are some things that can be done to make the moment unforgettable.
Sex doesn’t have to be boring. Because some have that attitude, they find that they don’t look forward to it as much as they used to. Fortunately, there are ways to ramp up your sex life a bit so that it doesn’t have to be the same old boring thing.
The first thing you need to do is tell your partner how bad you want him or her to help you make things better. Express your desire to step outside of the box and be adventurous together. Sometimes, couples find out that there is an inner sex beast that has been waiting to unleash itself for quite some time.
Whether you have been in a lesbian relationship before or this is your first time, being in a new relationship with another woman can be exciting and it can be filled with a lot of uncertainty. Most of the uncertainty tends to surround sex. The fact is that it all comes down to having good communication. Yes, talking about sex can be difficult. It is not something that any of us are ever taught how to do. In fact, as women, we’ve more or less been condition to keep our mouths shut and that is a habit that is hard to break.
So how do you talk about sex with your new partner when you have no idea where to start? Really, it doesn’t matter where you start as long as you start talking before things take a bad turn.
Knowing a lady’s pleasure points can ensure she is sexually satisfied in foreplay and the sex act itself. At the same time, you are able to keep her riled and excited to the point that she is going to drive you wild in bed. Think about how feisty she gets when you really turn her on. Now imagine getting her that psyched every single time and how much that in itself turns you on. Continue reading →